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Your Truth & Boundaries {Key #7}

Tanya Penny Occupational Therapist Vibrant Body Abundant Life Coach

Hello, I’m Tanya Penny, Occupational Therapist, Vibrant Body & Abundant Life Coach. In this post we will be focusing on key #7 of the Vibrant Body and Abundant Life Blueprint – Your Truth & Boundaries. If you haven’t signed-up to learn about all 10 keys yet, you can receive the 10 Keys Blueprint Guide, audio lesson and guided Therapeutic Meditation Practice by clicking here.

What do I mean when I say “Your Truth”? I mean what is true for you…and because we change and grow all the time, your truth will likely change. It may even change day to day and that is okay. Your truth includes: what you feel in your body at any moment (pain, fatigue, etc.), what emotions you’re experiencing (angry, sad, happy), what you think and believe (your “opinions”), what you want/need/desire in all seven areas of your life, and how you want to be treated by others.

When I talk about “Boundaries”, this means with yourself first, and then others. We have to know what our truth is in order to know what our boundaries are and if they are broken. In general, a boundary that most of you want to keep is being honest with yourself about what your truth is (about all I mentioned previously). The next piece is being able to express that with yourself and others, as well as behaving or taking actions that are in alignment with your truths. As an example, a lot of people come to me sick and one of their truths is that yes, I’m sick right now, I have these symptoms, I’m feeling this way and I desire to be healthy. You may then need to set a boundary around your time so you can take time to heal and be healthy again. You’re going to need to take the time to do the things that will get you back to 100% health. It’s not always easy setting and keeping boundaries. That was one of the big challenges I had to face to heal the MS, depression, anxiety, etc. I had to say no to people because I needed time to take cared of myself, I needed to work/do less, and rest more.

Let’s talk about boundaries with others. First, express your truth and be who you truly are with everyone in your life. If they don’t respect or honor that, then you may have to set another boundary with them. If they still aren’t keeping it, then you may have to walk away for awhile or forever. This is true for your work life and personal life- we want to do this in all areas of our life. For example, if you express how you feel and what you think and a friend/partner/family member shuts you down, or criticizes you – then you will want to set a boundary, as we all deserve to be heard. You might have to set another boundary such as, “Hey, I expect if we’re going to be in this relationship, that you’re going to hear to me. You don’t have to agree but you’re going to at least need to listen to what I have to say and think (and not put me down, make me feel less than, bad, guilty, etc.)” Maybe you set that boundary and they’re still not keeping it. Then you’re going to have to decide if you need to leave that relationship. This is where it really becomes difficult for a lot of us…I’ll explain why that is in a little bit.

Why is it important to know and express your truth, set/keep boundaries? In a nutshell, your health and happiness depends on it. It does affect all other areas of your life as well- your purpose, your passions, money…everything. Many people come to me with depression, anger, resentment, grief and sadness and are not expressing them. Most of us struggle with emotions and end up stuffing them. When we’re not expressing, feeling and releasing our emotions, over time it will come out as a physical illness in your body- pain, headaches, fatigue, or a full blown illness (cancer, MS, chronic fatigue, etc.).

Why would we not want to know our truth? The simple answer is fear. From a very young age, many of us tried to speak and be our truth and got shut down, lost love or praise, and maybe caused conflict (or even worse). Some of us were criticized or made fun of by family, siblings, at school. At some point in your life (and probably many times), something negative happened when you were speaking, being, acting from your truth or set a boundary. A lot of us as children didn’t even try to set or keep a boundary because we didn’t have the power to do that (especially with adults). Now we’re adults and still doing it even though we now have the power.

What can we do to begin shifting this today?

1) First start with asking yourself “what is my truth”? Grab your journal, take time and reflect/write: what you’re feeling in your body, emotions you’re experiencing, your thoughts/beliefs, What you want/need/desire in all seven areas of your life.
2) I recommend to then do this on a daily basis, for a few minutes, in your journal.
3) Next, reflect on who you currently express and be your truth with AND who you don’t.
4) Then reflect on why you are holding back from knowing what your truth is, expressing it, and from setting/keeping healthy boundaries. That will go back to the fears we talked about that started in childhood.

Then if you are ready to go deeper into this, and would like more tips, tools and support on living your truth and setting and keeping healthy boundaries, I invite you to look at the options below.

As always, progress not perfection. Baby steps. Small changes every day and keep building on that. If you fall off the wagon, please be gentle with yourself. Compassion will help you get back on the wagon a lot easier than beating yourself up. This is something that most people struggle with given what we experienced in childhood. Our parents experienced it too as did everybody else who shut you down or criticized you. Most everyone has struggled with this and is trying to heal that now. When you do this, you’re going to be happier, feel more fulfilled… even though it may feel hard at first, it’s very much worth it.

xoxo Tanya 🙂

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Nurture Your Body {Key #6}

Tanya Penny Occupational Therapist Vibrant Body Abundant Life Coach

Hello, I’m Tanya Penny, Occupational Therapist, Vibrant Body & Abundant Life Coach. In this post we will be focusing on key #6 of the Vibrant Body and Abundant Life Blueprint – Nurture Your Body. If you haven’t signed-up to learn about all 10 keys yet, you can receive the 10 Keys Blueprint Guide, audio lesson and guided Therapeutic Meditation Practice by clicking here. Most of us didn’t learn how to properly nurture our body. Perhaps like me, you didn’t see your parents doing it. Of course, we are not here to blame anybody, they were doing the best that they could and they were doing what they learned. But I’m sharing this because a lot of us beat ourselves up for not doing something… but in truth, we didn’t know how because it wasn’t modeled for us. Even if we now know how, why do we often continue to do the old things that were modeled for us growing up? You might be wondering “God why can’t I change?!” The truth is that these are habits. They were modeled for you, you took them on to be the way things should be in the world and how to nurture your body. Be really gentle with yourself. Don’t beat yourself up because there is really no point in doing that, it’s a waste of energy, time. We are going to move into the 3 areas we are focusing on to Nurture Your Body: 1) Nutrition– First of all I don’t believe … Continue reading →

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Stress & Life Balance {Key #5}

Tanya Penny Occupational Therapist Vibrant Body Abundant Life Coach

Hello, I’m Tanya Penny. In this post we will be focusing on key #5 of the Vibrant Body and Abundant Life Blueprint – Stress & Life Balance. If you haven’t signed-up to learn about all 10 keys yet, you can receive the Blueprint Guide, audio lesson and Guided Therapeutic Meditation Practice by clicking here. I believe that stress is the number one cause and progression of disease and illness. Which is why it is so important to talk about and then shift. Let’s start with the 3 biggest things that cause us stress- The 3 T’s: Thoughts, Toxins and Traumas. The first T is our Thoughts. If you’ve done any work with me before or have been in my community for awhile, I’m sure that you’ve heard me talk about the 3P’s. The first P is Perfection– when we tell ourselves that we have to do it perfectly, we have to do it and get it right, can’t make mistakes… and all of those variations. It can also cause us to overdo, we beat up on ourselves mentally and that causes us to push ourselves too hard physically. The second P is People Pleasing– Thoughts or beliefs that have to do with making other people happy, fixing other people’s problems, care-taking or carrying other people (emotionally, physically and/or financially), doing things because we think we have to, or so they won’t get mad at us, etc. The third 3P is Pretending to be Superwoman– Thoughts and beliefs that cause us … Continue reading →

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Trust Something Bigger {Key #4}

Tanya Penny Occupational Therapist Vibrant Body Abundant Life Coach

Hello, I’m Tanya Penny. In this post we will be focusing on key #4 of the Vibrant Body and Abundant Life Blueprint – Trust Something Bigger. If you haven’t signed-up to learn about all 10 keys yet, you can receive the Blueprint Guide, audio lesson and Guided Therapeutic Meditation Practice by clicking here. I’ll start with a snapshot of my journey to trusting Something Bigger. I walked away from religion (and spirituality) when I was 18. I didn’t know there was a difference between the two. I grew up Catholic and there was a lot of talk about religion but not really spirituality, they were the same thing in my world. I didn’t jive with what I was taught by the Catholic religion so I pretty much said I was done with religion as soon as I turned eighteen. I really didn’t come back to my spiritual self, consciously, until I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in 2004. This key was a part of my journey to healing the MS, anxiety, depression, past trauma and pretty much everything I was struggling with. The truth is we are all connected to Something Bigger, always, whether we are aware of it or not. You might call it God, Source, Universe, Nature, etc., it really doesn’t matter what you call it. Many of us have become disconnected or shut it down for various reasons: we don’t make time, we’ve had negative experiences with religion or spirituality, negative experiences or trauma. When that happens … Continue reading →

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Trust Yourself {Key #3}

Tanya Penny Occupational Therapist Vibrant Body Abundant Life Coach

I’m Tanya Penny, Self-Love Catalyst, Vibrant Body and Abundant Life Coach. In this video I will be giving a mini-lesson on Key #3 of the Vibrant Body and Abundant Life Blueprint – Trust Yourself. If you haven’t signed-up to learn about all 10 keys yet, you can receive the Blueprint Guide and Guided Therapeutic Meditation Practice by clicking here. Many of us stopped trusting and following our own guidance from a very early age and for many reasons. For some of us we got in trouble, punished, criticized, maybe even worse, for trying to do so. Some of us had love withheld or maybe other needs that wouldn’t get met if we didn’t do what one or both of our parents wanted us to do…act, speak or be who they wanted us to be vs. doing what our guidance was asking us to do. So, we turned it down or completely off. We began doing what others told us to do to please them, get the love, the treats, the clothes, the car, to get our needs met and perhaps to even be safe. In a nutshell, that’s why most of us stopped listening to and following our guidance. As adults, we may still doing this even though we are now able to keep ourselves safe, meet our own needs and support ourselves. We can also actually find people that will love and support us just for following our guidance and for being who we really are. There will be … Continue reading →

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